Om man går igenom en svår separation eller skilsmässa kan dessa visdomsord inspirera och ge hopp om att det blir bättre till slut!
Konflikter i förhållanden är oundvikliga – vissa kan få relationen att fungera medan andra väljer att gå skilda vägar. Beslutet kan vara ömsesidigt eller initierat av endast den ena parten. De flesta påverkas mer eller mindre av en sådan process. För en del blir en skilsmässa eller en separation uppslitande och följs av smärta och djup sorg.
Här följer några visdomsord för att motivera och uppmuntra dig genom de tuffa tiderna med upp- och nedgångar efter en skilsmässa eller separation.
-
Det finns kärlek i att hålla fast och det finns kärlek i att släppa taget. There is love in holding and there is love in letting go. – Elizabeth Berg
-
Gud tar ibland bort personer från ditt liv för att skydda dig. Spring inte efter dem. God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don’t run after them. – Rick Warren
-
Din relation må vara ”uppbruten”, men du kommer inte att vara ”nedbruten.” Om något, korrigerar du ett misstag som sårade fyra personer, du och personen du var med, för att inte tala om de två personer som ni är avsedda att möta. Your relationship may be ”Breaking Up,” but you won’t be ”Breaking Down.” If anything your correcting a mistake that was hurting four people, you and the person you were with, not to mention the two people who you were destined to meet. – D. Ivan Young
-
Alla övergivna älskande bör få en andra chans, men med någon annan. All discarded lovers should be given a second chance, but with somebody else. – Mae West
-
Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation. – Kahlil Gibran
-
You don’t die from a broken heart – you only wish you did.
-
If you really love something set it free. If it comes back it’s yours, if not it wasn’t meant to be.
-
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. – Elisabeth Kübler-Ross
-
I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me I’m going to smile.
-
But most people don’t get lucky. They get human. They get crushes. This means you irrationally mortgage what little logic you own to pay for this one thing. This relationship is an impulse buy, and you’ll figure out if it’s worth it later. – Sloane Crosley
-
I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.
-
I’ve had it with all stingy-hearted sons of bitches. A heart is to be spent. – Stephen Dunn
-
As soon as forever is through, I’ll be over you. – Toto
-
Why don’t you just pretend that the asshole dropped dead? You can’t call or write to a dead man. Put a couple of candles in front of his picture, say a few Hail Marys, and get it over with. – Isabel Lopez
-
Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself. – Deborah Reber
-
When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us – Alexander Graham Bell
-
I hope to one day co-sign a lease with another person but, well, it doesn’t plague me that I have yet to do so. Put it this way: I’ve never had to violently tug at my own pillow at 2 A.M. to get myself to stop snoring. – Sloane Crosley
-
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop.
-
There’s a girl in my mirror crying tonight, and there’s nothing I can say to make her feel alright.
-
Had I not created my whole world, I would certainly have died in other people’s. – Anais Nin
-
If you don’t like being a doormat then get off the floor. – Al Anon
-
You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. – Christopher Columbus
-
Every happy couple has a breakup in their past.
-
You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do. – Eleanor Roosevelt
-
In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel. It hurt when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with. Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it. – Paulo Coelho
-
And you tried to change, didn’t you? Closed your mouth more. Tried to be softer, prettier, less volatile, less awake… You can’t make homes out of human beings. Someone should have already told you that. And if he wants to leave, then let him leave. You are terrifying, and strange, and beautiful. Something not everyone knows how to love. – Warsan Shire
-
Never run for a bus, train, or man. When one leaves another arrives.
-
You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. – Steve Jobs
-
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
-
Life always waits for some crisis to occur before revealing itself at its most brilliant. – Paulo Coelho
-
Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart do not know how to laugh either. – Golda Meir
-
If we must part forever, Give me but one kind word to think upon, And please myself with, while my heart’s breaking. – Thomas Otway
-
I miss your smile… but I miss mine more. – Laurel House
-
I miss you a little, I guess you could say, a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day.
-
Never be sad for what is over, just be glad that it was once yours.
-
I will not try to convince you to love me, to respect me, to commit to me. I deserve better than that; I AM BETTER THAN THAT…Goodbye. – Steve Maraboli
-
I just broke up with someone and the last thing she said to me was ”You’ll never find anyone like me again!” I’m thinking, ”I should hope not! If I don’t want you, why would I want someone like you
-
You have to forgive to forget, and forget, to feel again.
-
Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him.
-
Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go. – Len Santos
-
Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving – Albert Einstein
-
Sometimes people let the same problem make them miserable for years when they could just say, So what. That’s one of my favorite things to say. So what. – Andy Warhol
-
Life is truly known only to those who suffer, lose, endure adversity and stumble from defeat to defeat. – Anais Nin
-
When a dreamer loses his lover, his dream profits. – Mokokoma Mokhonoana
-
You feel like telling him you’re not single in the way that he thinks you’re single. After all, you have yourself. – Sloane Crosley
-
The hardest part of dreaming about someone you love is having to wake up.
-
I’ve come to believe that all my past failure and frustration were actually laying the foundation for the understandings that have created the new level of living I now enjoy. – Tony Robbins
-
Shoo. Away with you. It’s my fault for expecting the extraordinary from the ordinary. – Donna Lynn Hope
-
Nothing in the universe can stop you from letting go and starting over. – Guy Finley
-
No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends. – Oscar Wilde
-
A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than hurt yourself to fix it.
-
Every time you are tempted to react in the same old way, ask if you want to be a prisoner of the past or a pioneer of the future. – Deepak Chopra
-
For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, It might have been. – John Greenleaf
-
This is why we call people exes, I guess – because the paths that cross in the middle end up separating at the end. It’s too easy to see an X as a cross-out. It’s not, because there’s no way to cross out something like that. the X is a diagram of two paths. – John Green
-
The loss of love is not nearly as painful as our resistance to accepting it is. – Tigress Luv
-
Love is unconditional, relationships are not. – Grant Gudmundson
-
Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.
-
Even on my weakest days I get a little bit stronger. – Sara Evans
-
Some people think that it’s holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it’s letting go.
-
To be rejected by someone doesn’t mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person. It doesn’t mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you, that person’s opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God. – Jocelyn Soriano
-
I wanted a perfect ending. Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity. – Gilda Radner
-
They that sow in tears shall reap in joy.
-
The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times. – Paulo Coelho
-
The heart was made to be broken. – Oscar Wilde
-
If you have to speculate if someone loves you and wants to be with you, chances are they don’t. It’s not that complicated. Love, in most cases, betrays the one feeling it. Don’t waste moments waiting and wondering. Don’t throw away your time dreaming of someone that doesn’t want you. No one is that amazing, certainly not the one who would pass you up. – Donna Lynn Hope
-
Don’t you dare, for one more second, surround yourself with people who are not aware of the greatness that you are. – Jo Blackwell-Preston
-
I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken, and I’d rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as long as I lived – Margaret Mitchell
-
There’s this place in me where your finger prints still rest… your kisses still linger and your whispers softly echo… It’s the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me.
-
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart – Washington Irving
-
The hottest love has the coldest end. – Socrates
-
No man is rich enough to buy back his past. – Oscar Wilde
